Counselor George Lutterodt has revealed that they are plenty of ‘masturbating virgins’ in churches and stressed that such women can never be satisfied by any man.
He explained that “there are women who claim they are virgins and yet satisfy themselves with all manner of pleasurable items including vibrating cell phones, and all manner of sex toys.”
The Counselor affectionately called “The emotional fixer” made this claim on GHOne’s relationship programme, ‘Tales from the Powder Room’ on Wednesday during a discussion on the phenomenon of virginity, society’s view of virgins, how they are perceived and the ‘hard’ truth about remaining chaste till one enters marriage.
He categorized yet to be ‘deflowered’ women under the following; infant virgins, secondary virgins, and masturbating virgins.
Per the controversial counselor’s explanations:
Infant Virgins have never engaged in sexual relations since birth,
Secondary Virgins have engaged in sexual acts before but have decided to never again get intimate with a man till they decide otherwise at a later time,
Masturbating Virgins use sex toys and other items to excite themselves but do not have sexual relations with a man.
He established that there are many women in churches who fall within the “Masturbating virgin bracket” and cautioned against it, noting that such women can hardly be pleased by their men when they later settle down in marriage.
“If you are a man and marries such women you can never satisfy them in bed because you (the man) is competing with a machine! (vibrator and other sex toys)”
“But how can you a man, compete with a machine to satisfy a woman who pleasures herself with vibrating devices?” he queried.
He, however, admitted that though today’s society has their own opinions about getting involved with a virgin, “if you are a virgin, know why you have decided to remain as such and stand by it with pride.”
He maintained that keeping one’s self till they marry before having sex is the best way to avoid guilt, sexually transmitted diseases STD’s, etc but does not mean that they are guaranteed a problem free marriage.